Is that something you generally only do when the person died at a relatively young age? Because I've been thinking (ever since my dream a few nights ago about my grandpa who died 8 years ago), I haven't visited my grandparents' graves once, and I'm pretty sure my parents haven't either. Is that bad? I don't even know what I'd do there. Talking to a corpse seems hard enough when it *didn't* suffer from dementia.