OK; so... last month my dear old grandad died while I was down for a family wedding... coupla big heart attacks and they stuck him on a morphine driver. While I stayed down, my prick of a boss decided a day after I explained the events to ring me up and harass me down the phone. On top of his general workplace bullying angle, I decided an intrusion on my family was enough, and I've raised a grievance against my boss. Since then, work has been very stressful and difficult!

Last week, I fell up the stairs and suffered a brain contusion. I went into work on monday, then started to feel the effects of concussion... so I was taken to A&E by a colleague and diagnosed thus. I returned to my GP when symptoms didn't resolve, and he suggested painkillers. Much improvement.

ONE DAY back into work and Mr Boss Man tries to give me a verbal for illness triggers. I clue myself up on trade union stuff on illness triggers on the internet... then later that evening, after work, fate strikes. I go to a friend's house and her dad serves up some prawn curry. Now I am the most suspicious food poisoning sufferer that ever walked the land.

Advice?