One of my very best female friends is getting married in four weeks, which is all very exciting. However, I have now learnt that I am invited not to the stag do (I don't know the groom very well, so wasn't ever expecting to be), but I have apparently been invited to the hen. One other bloke has been invited, but as he's currently living in Taiwain, he's not even able to make it to the wedding, so he definitely won't be going along.

Now, I am under no pressure to go, as it would be a massive headache to get to, but hypothetically, is it a good idea or an awful one? On the one hand, loads of drunk girls and you're the only guy... on the other hand, loads of drunk girls, you're the only guy.

Also, it makes me wonder if she thinks I'm gay.