Do you have to ask "hey, you should be my girlfriend" is it that clear or is it something that is just accepted without talking about it.

I am asking this because I don't think I have ever really had a girlfriend. I have had a few short term relationships but lost interest early on. Think I might be picky when it comes to relationships it's hard to know. Maybe I am just boring and ugly.

think the longest relationship I had was nearly 2 months or probably less. pitiful